Guys I know there are somethings that happened within us. I think there is no need to really 把事情闹大. If it's a fact, just accept it. If it's a problem, solve it. I think there is no use of 追究ing the matter. I think it is just 提醒我们的缺点. Ofcouse things can and must be explained, but no asking how we feel and explain to us. I felt that when we 直接跟对方讲我对她的不满或缺点,这只是把我们的距离拉大。Is like A ask me how i feel about her after she had hurt me unknowingly, and i say she is very ugly, stupid, inconsiderate etc. We both get hurt. (which is what i am like doing now. )You get hurt as you didnt know you were so bad, i get upset when i said such thing. Like what the Cme teacher said, tolerance and understanding are extreamly important in friendship.